Our neighborhood has gone all out with scary stuff everywhere. I tell the kids not to look at it, but really don't expect them to be able to avoid it. One neighbor today stopped Daniel and the kids while they were out walking and told them to be sure to visit him on Halloween because he has a ton of candy. We probably won't hand out any candy at our house. Instead we gave six bags of candy to our church AWANA program for their "Western Night" that will be held as an alternative to Halloween. We may just send Daniel to help them that night while I take the kids trick or treating. It depends on if we have Latte with us because she might be overwhelmed with an event like that.
Monday, October 29, 2007
Two Little Pumpkins
Our neighborhood has gone all out with scary stuff everywhere. I tell the kids not to look at it, but really don't expect them to be able to avoid it. One neighbor today stopped Daniel and the kids while they were out walking and told them to be sure to visit him on Halloween because he has a ton of candy. We probably won't hand out any candy at our house. Instead we gave six bags of candy to our church AWANA program for their "Western Night" that will be held as an alternative to Halloween. We may just send Daniel to help them that night while I take the kids trick or treating. It depends on if we have Latte with us because she might be overwhelmed with an event like that.
Our First Fall
Our home here in Thornton is completely different. There are trees everywhere, with leaves bursting into color. We live in a lovely old neighborhood where the neighbors are all friendly and the traffic doesn't intrude much. This year I don't feel homesick, I feel like I'm home.
Voting by Mail
The first two were fairly easy to decide. The public school director issue was silly because there were only 3 people to choose from and it said "choose 3". So they had zero competition. We looked online and could find almost no information about these 3 people except for their names on the school board.
The proposition for schools was asking if we wanted our local public schools to go $132 million dollars deeper into debt to build a new building and buy some new stuff. It had a few other little features like allowing the school to issue loans which seems crazy to me. How can they issue loans if they themselves are that deeply in debt? Daniel says it will probably pass because people always vote yes on anything that is for schools or kids without considering whether it is a good decision or not. We'll see.
When Dad has the Camera
Meanwhile, I was dropped off at the church at 2pm. Band rehearsal for the Christmas concert didn't start until 3:30, so I used the time to practice and go over my music. I didn't get home until 6 that night. It was a very long rehearsal, but we were sounding better by the end.
It was kind of fun having the house to myself until everyone else got home just before 9pm. I watched "50 First Dates" and scrapbooked. A day like that probably won't come around again for a long time!
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Corny Kids
This was the most fun activity at the pumpkin patch, and it was the only thing that was free. Of course, I'll be picking corn out of my car and out of the rug for a long time to come. They had quite a bit of it stuck in their clothing when they came home. We caught Kevin just as he was trying to eat some.
Picking Pumpkins
Everything was so expensive! We couldn't afford the corn maze at $8 per person, so instead they petted the pony, rode the little train, played in the corn kernels, and picked out tiny little pumpkins. We let Latte get two pumpkins, one to keep here and one to take with her tomorrow. Kevin was so excited about the pumpkins. He actually ate his! He chewed on it all the way home and now it is covered in teeth marks. He has all but two of his top teeth now so he was able to do some serious damage to that poor little pumpkin.
Latte loves animals, especially horses, so she was over joyed at all the little ponies at the pumpkin patch. She ran from one to the next petting them all. We're looking for a "My Little Pony" poster to hang in her bedroom. If anyone knows where we can find one please email us, thanks!
Swing With Me!
I was afraid this whole "bonding" thing was going to be harder, but Latte seems to have attached herself to me fairly quickly. She's also starting to warm up to Daniel a little. Today she laughed when he was being silly and let him push her on the swing. Gloria and Danya showed Latte how to do the "spider" on the swings. She watched but didn't want to try it.
Six is Sweet!
Gloria was so excited when he made a balloon rose for her. She wondered how "Mr. Ron the Magic Man" knew that her middle name is Rose. Don't you love happy coincidences? She was also ecstatic that most of her gifts were Barbie related. When she opened a Ken doll one of the kids said, "Oh, look! It's a man Barbie!"
Friday, October 26, 2007
Party Prep
We received a lot of last minute RSVPs today. The phone was ringing off the hook all day long. A few of those calls were from Latte's foster mom and our caseworker. Unfortunately no one has been able to reach Latte's caseworker, "K", so plans are a bit up in the air for her. We did manage to secure permission from K's supervisor to keep Latte overnight tomorrow. So she'll get to come to church with us on Sunday, too!
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Good Surprise, Bad Surprise
Her case worker feels that Latte needs a chance to see our house and then come again some other time. So she has to make a couple more trips where she drives almost 3 hours down and back to visit us because the caseworker thinks that will be "easier" for Latte. Personally, I think the caseworker should be the one to drive her both directions each time. So instead of spending the night Friday and being here for Glory's party Saturday morning (which starts at 10:30 am), she'll wake up at 6 am and be on the road from 7ish and, I'm sure, arrive cheerful and ready to join a crowd of noisy excited kids.
Tonight after AWANA was really hard for me. I had been looking forward to tucking her in, reading bedtime stories, singing our lullabye, and saying bedtime prayers all for the first time. We're all hoping that the caseworker will relent and let Latte stay on Saturday instead of dragging it out another week. I'm afraid that Latte won't understand why we can't see her for the next couple of days. I hate confusing her like this.
The Bow vs. The Package
We've been frustrated by those curtains ever since we bought them. This time I went simple with two straight tabbed panels, light green to match the walls. The new table cloth seems to really make the kitchen feel more dressed up. I like it a lot. Daniel says it just completes the picnic table look of our kitchen table. He's a guy. What does he know about decor? He did hang the new picture in the living room that I've been asking him to without having to be reminded today. I like the picture because it looks like the pond I grew up next to.
Strangely Gifted
We set up the picture frames from Aunt Robin around the house. My favorite was the one with pictures from Danya's birthday at Frontier City in it. Gloria's eyes lit up when she found 6 whole dollars in one package. Daniel looked nervous because he pays the kids 5% interest per week on any money they save in the "Elliott Bank" we created. Our girls have turned out to be surprisingly frugal. Gloria doesn't know it but she'll be getting a couple more packages from my side of the family later over the next couple of days.
Speaking of gifts, Danya seems "strangely gifted" to me in this photo. I have no idea how she got into that odd position or managed to stay that way, much less why she feels like it's a comfortable position to read in.
Kit Carson Carousel
It was originally built and used at Elitch Gardens (Six Flags now) in Denver. It's over 100 years old now. We figured it was a good little mini- homeschool field trip. Hopefully next year we can actually ride it.
Outback Territory
Latte was excited to see me. She had me carry the paper pumpkin she decorated out to the car and she held my hand while we walked. She was mad that she couldn't ride in our van, but we couldn't let her see that all her stuff was in there because it might upset her. Her foster mom convinced her to get in their car by promising that I would ride with them in the passenger seat.
The kids had a great time at the park. They liked the swings. Daniel gave Latte an underdog and she thought that was great. Later we all sat in a wooden vehicle and I pretended to fly it while Daniel shook it and all the kids hung on for dear life laughing like crazy. Then we all pretended to jump out and open our parachutes. At first Latte looked at us like we were nuts, but then she played with us and jumped out of the "plane" and into my arms. I think maybe she isn't used to adults truly playing and being silly.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Just Like Home
This is the first time that the "green room" really felt like someone's bedroom instead of just a temporary guest room. The closet has little dresses and jackets hanging up in it instead of only being a storage place for extra boxes of blankets. Tomorrow Latte will be arriving shortly after lunch. Her foster mom agreed with us that it's best if she doesn't go back and forth between sleeping here and back in her old home this week. So she should be able to stay from tomorrow on. Hopefully she'll be feeling somewhat settled by Saturday when we have Glory's party. It will be her third morning waking up here in her new home. Her forever home!
Monday, October 22, 2007
My Brown Eyed Girl
Latte is interested in the kids. She played Barbie's with Gloria, figured out the ketchup dispenser at McDonald's with Danya, and "discussed" ice cream and video games with Kevin. Daniel she isn't sure about and seems surprised when he talks to her or tries to help her with anything like, for instance, her melting ice cream cone that was about to run down her arm.
She and I, however, seem to have really hit it off. She swam with me, let me wrap her in a towel and carry her to her foster mom's car, demanded that I push her higher on the swing, and talked about all the interesting carousel animals in the pictures on the wall at McDonald's. We both liked the giraffes. She even got upset when I said goodbye at her front door tonight. I had to assure her that we would be coming back tomorrow to play some more. I think this is going to work out beautifully!
First Time Hot Tubbin'
When it was time to go I asked "A" if he wanted to go swimming with us. He said, "Yes" and a few minutes later Latte said, "I'm coming too, okay?" Before that, although she didn't actually talk to me, I asked her if she'd like to come to Gloria's birthday party this weekend. I told her she could dress up like a princess and there would be a magic show. She grabbed the net on the side of the play land and jumped up and down saying, "Yea! Yea! Yea!"
At the pool, for some reason she suddenly decided that she trusted me. She jumped into my arms and we swam together the whole time. She liked jumping off the steps and having me catch her. Once she jumped when I wasn't expecting it and almost knocked me over! We played whirlpool, with her hanging onto my arm as I spun in a circle. She chased the beach ball with Kevin and sat on the edge of the hot tub with Daniel. The water in the hot tub was scorching hot, so no one wanted to be in there much. She would get mad at me if I got out of the pool and demand that I get back in, lol. This was Kevin's first time in a hot tub, so I had to get a picture of him, too.
Rotten Luck
Then Kevin tried to climb out of his toy boat, got his foot caught, and fell over backwards cracking his head into an end table.
Later, at Latte's foster home, we were all getting ready to leave for dinner when Latte started crying because her legs hurt. She had some sort of strange allergic reaction to the chemicals in the pool water that we swam in at the hotel. When her foster mom put lotion on them they got worse. Her legs were bright red. After taking some Benadryl she seemed okay, though.
I figure overall though, if that's the worst that happened, our day went pretty good. Kevin's sleeping in his playpen while I type this from our hotel room. Daniel and our girls have gone for a late night dip in the pool. We can't wait to see Latte again tomorrow!
Sunday, October 21, 2007
First Snow of the Season
We weren't really prepared for snow yet, so we had to hunt throughout the house to find coats. Kevin doesn't even have a real coat yet, just a warm jacket. Danya has somehow lost her big coat. Shannon had stayed the night with us and only packed a light jacket and a scarf. The girls wanted to play with the snow, but we couldn't find gloves so they didn't get to.
It was a crazy snow day. Daniel thinks someone slid into the back of our van and bumped it on his way home from work, but he didn't bother to stop because they just tapped his bumper. Driving our van feels a little like being in a tank. Everything else went pretty well today. We're all excited and nervous about meeting Latte tomorrow. We found our swim suits and went shopping for birthday gifts for Gloria. We are planning some fun things for her Princesses & Knights party this coming Saturday.
Little Entertainer
He knows he gets attention when he dances, too. We all love it when music starts playing and he'll start bouncing up and down and waving his arms in the air. Usually, we'll all start dancing with him. Friday he was helping me push the shopping cart through Wal-mart when all of a sudden he let go. I turned around and he was dancing to the music they play on the intercom system. I finally had to pick him up and carry him. Otherwise we would have had to dance our way through the whole store!
Pizza Hut Book-It Program
Friday, October 19, 2007
Ball in the Fall


I was tied to the house because I was expecting calls from our county DHS about Latte. So I let the girls play soccer within sight of the house over at the park. Kevin wanted to go with them so badly, but I made him stay in the front yard. I gave him a football as compensation and he had a great time...coloring on it with purple chalk. When the girls were done playing they came back home and Danya said, "Mommy I won! The score was 14 to 2! Although, that might be because Gloria's goal was up hill and mine was down."
The main placement person, "R", did call me. She is arranging a hotel room for Monday. We'll arrive around lunch time and Latte and her foster mom, "J", and her favorite foster brother, "A", who is 3 will all come to the hotel to swim with us in the indoor pool. Then we'll stay the night and visit her at her foster home the next day. On Wednesday "J" will bring Latte to spend the day with us and if all goes well, she'll have an overnight visit. Then "R" will bring her back home on Thursday. Then Latte's foster mom will pack everything up (which she says is A LOT) that belongs to Latte and she will move in with us this weekend on Friday or Saturday!! We're excited, but it will be hectic since Gloria's birthday party is Saturday morning. I'm thrilled that it will all happen so fast!
Food For Thought
After that we read about the benefits to our bodies that we get from different vitamins. They had to run around the house reading food labels and make a list of which ones had vitamin A,B,C, or D. They both got a kick out of that and were surprised that some foods that they thought would be healthy, turned out not to have anything very good in it.
Here's Gloria's poem:
Green and Crunchy
Sticky Skin
Sour
No stem
Danya's story isn't quite finished yet. I'm sure she'll want to post it on her blog when she's done, because it's starting out really good. You can see she's thinking hard about it in this photo. Also in this photo you can see the envelope from a letter we got from our homeschool pen pals from Oklahoma, Courtney and Megan. They say that "mail begets mail" and it's very true! Since we began having the girls include letter writing as part of our weekly homeschool lessons they've received letters from Oklahoma, Texas, and Florida! They are saving the letters and envelopes. If anyone reading this lives in another state and would like pen pals for their kids, Danya and Gloria would love to write to you!
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Then I Saw Her Face!
"Then I saw her face,
now I'm a believer.
Not a trace
of doubt in my mind.
I'm in love, I'm a believer!
I couldnt leave her if I tried."
-by The Monkees
We went to the meeting at our county DHS today. When we dropped the kids off in the daycare room our little girl was there already! I can't believe that I didn't see her at first! I didn't get to see her until it was time to leave. She's beautiful!!! She has thick wavy light brown hair and her skin looks like coffee with lots of milk in it. She's tall for her age and built like our girls.

We met her current foster mom and her case worker today. They both seem to care about her and have her best interests in mind. We will hopefully get to really meet her and talk to her for the first time either on Sunday or Monday. It sounds like the county will pay for us to get a hotel room in the town she's living in. That way we can visit her the first day, stay the night, and visit again the next day. Her case worker wants her to get a chance to spend the day at our house once before coming to stay permanently. God willing, she could be officially ours before next summer!
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
From 3 to 4 - We Got a Little Girl!
The hard part is that she lives two hours from here so it will make the transition process difficult. We are considering spending a couple of days in her town so that we can visit her multiple times. Then if all goes well she can come here to stay by the end of this month!
We have been praying about her for weeks. We are just jumping up and down and thanking God that our family will finally be growing again and that we get to give this little girl a family that will love her forever! There is a six month period where they evaluate the placement to see that everything is working out. Her birthday is in April, so maybe we'll be able to begin the actual adoption proceedings by her birthday next year! Yippee!
View From a Wagon
In case anyone is wondering about the foster/adopt situation, we are basically in limbo right now. We've been calling since Friday and leaving messages with everyone at our county DHS, but can't seem to get ahold of an actual person. So we don't know yet if the little girl we're hoping for right now will be placed with us. We'll let you know when we know. Meanwhile we haven't had a call from Curly Top and The King's new foster mom, so I'm hoping that means that everything is going well for them.
Friday, October 12, 2007
Evidence
Crime: Eating breakfast in the bathroom
Possible Accomplice: Mom
WANTED: If you see this suspect be warned that he may be carrying a loaded diaper. He is suspected of having breakfast in a location other than his high chair while his accomplice was taking a bath. Any tips on their whereabouts should be reported immediately to 1-800-DAD.
Scheduling Conflict
Tonight I got a call from a friend letting me know that one of the girls, Kinsey, is having her birthday party on the same day we had planned Gloria's party. It's on her birthday, October the 28th. We don't want to make people choose between parties, so we have to decide whether to change her party to the day before or the day after. Luckily, our plans are kind of flexible right now. We know she wants a princess and knights party and my friend, the other t-bone player in the praise band, said he'd do a magic show and balloon animals at the party. We want to hand out invitations this Sunday, so we have to decide a date and time quickly.
The King is One
Daniel took Kevin and The King through the tunnels by himself! He said the hardest part was lifting them up to the top level, after that it was just a matter of chasing after them as they crawled. Curly Top and The King weren't very interested in the pizza. Kevin just kept saying, "hot!" and blowing on his.
SPEED! I AM SPEED!
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Unexpected Goodbye
Today we were told that it was definite, so we packed up their things. It's amazing how much stuff they had accumulated in just four days. We decided to celebrate The King's first birthday today since we won't get to be with him tomorrow on his actual birthday. We wrapped his gifts and went to Chuck E. Cheese for lunch.
On the way the new caseworker called and said she has a family for them. Their new foster parents will be taking Curly Top, The King, and their new baby brother, which is great, but it's their first placement and they don't have any children. So, this may be quite a shock for them. I included a letter about their likes/dislikes and bedtime routine in the backpack we put their things in and added my phone number on it in case she has any questions or needs advice. We said goodbye to them outside of Chuck E. Cheese. I think Curly Top knew something was up because she was being very quiet. We sure are going to miss them both.
I added this photo because you can't identify them from it. I think it's better than the other method I've seen where people post a picture with their face blurred out.
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