Costume Shopping

We took the kids out to Walmart and looked for Halloween costumes for the boys while we were there. Danya fell in love with this white bride outfit. She said, "Look! It's the Lady all in White!" That's the lady from the lull-a-bye I sing to the kids every night. The middle verse goes:

There is a lady all in white, holds me and sings a lull-a-bye. She's nice to see and she's soft to touch. She says, "(Insert kids' names) I love you very much."

The motocross outfit that Brother is wearing in this photo is not his actual costume. We bought this one and a knight costume just so that the boys would have some dress up clothes for when the girls play dress up. We were not happy seeing Kevin walk up the stairs in a leotard and tutu. We promised we'd get him some "boy dress up" things. Brother's actual costume is Spider Man and Kevin will be Indiana Jones.

Four in a Fire Truck

We reassembled Kevin's old fire truck bed outside for the kids to play on. They love it. They really need something extra to do out there. We had originally hoped last Spring that we'd be able to afford a big wooden play set with swings and a slide, but that didn't work out.

I made the mistake of giving them chalk outside a while ago. They colored all over the back steps. The roof covers the step just enough that rain never washes it clean. So every time one of the kids walks back into the house you can see a trail of little blue chalk footprints across the kitchen floor. I need to take the time to wash the step myself, but haven't gotten to it yet. I feel like I'm rushing around just playing catch up right now trying to keep the house clean with this many people in it.

Our First 12 year old!

We're on our way to go pick up two sisters ages 8 and 12! They're Cambodian! More info soon! Wish us luck!

A Father's Song

Tonight Daniel was having a great time reading to the kids. He was reading Kevin's new book A Father's Song that has lots of fun little things in it that the kids like to do with Daniel. When Daniel is reading the part about the Daddy flying his son through the air with his arms spread wide like an airplane all our kids act like airplanes, too, making "zoom!" sounds.

Speaking of bedtime books, it cracks me up when Kevin climbs into Daniel's lap, hands him a book, and says, "Talk at it, Daddy." I guess that is what reading would look like to a 2 year old.

Lapbooking at the Library

My friend Dawn invited us to join her and her three girls at the library to make lapbooks today. We haven't done this in a long time. Not since our brief foray into FIAR (Five in a Row) a couple of years ago. FIAR was a little too slow for us, but we did enjoy making lapbooks. It took me a whole day to find all the materials, templates, etc. that I wanted for the girls' books online and print them out. Then a couple of hours working with the girls to get everything prepared and cut out. We did the final assembly at the library.

Today Danya made a lapbook about the American Girl character "Kit Kittredge" who she has become very interested in lately. We researched what it was like to live in 1934 and came up with some fun elements for her book. We learned that Shirley Temple (who Danya adores) was in her first movie that year. Danya also made some comparisons between prices and technology in 1934 and today.

Gloria's lapbook is about the book we are currently reading out loud together for homeschool. The book is The Cabin Faced West and is based on the actual life story of the author's great grandmother. Since the main character is fascinated by George Washington, Gloria's lapbook has several elements about him including a mini book. Then there's some info about life as a pioneer girl and a hidden picture game where you look for tools used in that time period.

Snow White did a "letter Aa" lapbook. It's got a mini book that she made called "My A Book" and a word search in which she just circled all the letter "a's". We also included samples of her handwriting with capital "A" across the top and lowercase "a" on the bottom. She was so proud of her book. She wouldn't let me put it back in the bag to go home. It had to be with her in the car so she could rush right into the house to show it to Daniel and Brother. She did a good job and got lots of practice with writing and cutting skills.

Honoring Our Stars

Last night there was a special awards ceremony at our county foster parent support group meeting. They went all out decorating the meeting room with stars. It was a night to honor the biological kids in foster families that do so much for foster kids. What a great idea! The kids got to sit up front and talk about ways that they help their foster siblings. Then they each were called up by name to receive a special plaque thanking them for the important job they do.

It's true that Danya, Gloria, and Kevin are expected to do a lot and share all that they have with total strangers who walk into their home needing so much. I started thinking about it and realized that it's actually more difficult for my kids than for me. I don't have to share my room with a stranger or let them play with my things.

Today Danya spent time helping Snow White work on writing her name and was very patient with her even when Snow White was being a little obstinate. Gloria shares in the loss of privileges when the room she shares with Snow White is messy even if most of it is not her fault. She's really experiencing what it's like to finally be the big sister, the good and bad parts. Kevin is dealing with frustration and jealousy issues since Brother often wants to play with the toy that Kevin wants and can't speak well enough to communicate with Kevin.

Danya, Gloria, and Kevin also received gifts and candy which made them much more excited than the certificates of appreciation. The Girl Scouts even donated boxes of cookies as gifts! Then they got pizza, a movie, and crafts in the childcare area while the adults discussed how to help the kids deal with grief when foster children leave our homes. It was a good night.

About the Bailout

I'm pretty unhappy about the whole bailout plan. I know I'm no economist, but I do know that you don't throw good money after bad. Here are two videos shared by a fellow Pea that I think are worth watching:

Obama received the 2nd highest amount of $$ from Fannie and Freddie

They Knew in 2004

25 Years Together!

My trombone buddy from church, Ron, and his wife, Sherry, celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary this weekend. Daniel and I went to their party along with about 35 other people. It was in their back yard, and was absolutely beautiful. Their arched patio roof had white linen drapes hanging down and tied back. There were white awning tents set up over the tables which were decorated with pale colored flowers and flickering white candles in gorgeous glass bowls. There was home made Italian food and finally a dinner show provided by Ron. He played "Unforgettable" by Nat King Cole on his trombone and talked about how they met. He said that when he was in his high school marching, concert, jazz, and pep bands that there was always this pretty girl sitting in the audience which made him sit up straighter and play a little better. He took her to the prom and they've been together ever since.

Just for fun I've also included a photo of Ron with his twin brother. I finally got to meet him and must say that they don't look as much alike as I thought they would. Oh, and I told Daniel that after seeing Ron and Sherry's anniversary party, I expect on our 25th anniversary that Daniel will be prepared to sing to me. He just laughed. Oh well, a girl can hope.

Budding Artist

We recently discovered that Snow White cannot draw a person very well at all. She draws a couple of long lines sticking out of a skinny potato sort of like you'd expect a three year old to draw. We decided to remedy that this week. I've been having the girls line up and practice drawing people using basic shapes (circles, squares, rectangles). We also work on examining each other's faces to see how much space should be given for the forehead, where the nose actually begins, and how wide the mouth should be among other things. We've discussed proportion in body parts as well. She's already improving tremendously.

Danya and Gloria, of course, have heard all this from me before, but it helps for Snow White to see the girls doing it. Gloria has been improving by leaps and bounds in the last year. We've worked with a couple of different art books, studying line shading, shadows, and perspective. She drew this picture on the dry erase board last Thursday night. The work she's been doing with pencils is even better. I think, for a six year old, she's pretty good.

Banana Splits in the Dark

At AWANA last Wednesday it was banana split night. The kids all got to take their ice cream outside to the long row of playgrounds behind the church. They had so much fun eating ice cream and playing in the dark. Danya also completed her intro booklet for T&T (Truth & Training) which means she earned her uniform shirt and her book. She worked hard on that and was really proud. Now that she has her uniform she can officially be chosen to carry a flag during the opening ceremony.

Meanwhile, I've misplaced my new uniform shirt (which makes me look like a blimp, so no big loss) and found out today that the first night of Christmas Concert band practice will be held during AWANA Wednesday night so I won't be able to attend or hear the CD of the music.

Kevin's Loft

About a week ago Daniel, Ron (the trombone player), and I drove to Parker, CO to pick up a bed and dresser that we found for sale on Craig's List. He was unhappy being moved out of his big boy bed and back into the fire truck toddler bed when Brother came to live with us. We also needed more room for clothing, so a new dresser was a must.

The bed is a loft bed with storage on one side and a desk on the other. The ladder has bars just like the ones at the playground that Kevin is already a master at climbing, so he isn't afraid of it. The bed itself has a sturdy wooden side that keeps him from possibly falling out at night. The dresser which has blue drawers to match the ones in the bed fits perfectly underneath the loft bed so that it doesn't take up any extra space in the room. In this photo Danya and Brother are making a fort. You can also see the boys' blue toy box that fit neatly into the bottom shelf on the left. Having a loft bed has really cleared up a lot of floor space in their room thanks to all the storage.

Buses: A Love Hate Relationship

Okay, so maybe it's a like/hate relationship. There's no real love there. The other day I threw my back out somehow while running to the bus to give Snow White her permission slip to check out books from the school library. Then in the afternoon, we found out that my older girls can't walk her home from the bus stop. There must be an adult present or the bus driver can't drop off a Kindergartner. Despite the fact that it's literally just a few doors down from our house. That'll be fun this winter.

This week one of the people from the school district called to set up an appointment to evaluate Brother to see how bad his speech needs are and if he has developmental delays as well. They said there would be a spot for him at their main pre-K center where he could get the speech help he needs. Unfortunately, I'd have to drive him there and back four days a week because a bus doesn't come to our house for that school. His pre-K would only be 2 1/2 hours each day and they only have afternoons available.

So I'd be pausing Danya and Gloria's school day to feed Snow White lunch and get her on the bus by 11:00 am. Then feed the other kids and get Brother to school by 12:30. Then go home, put Kevin down for a nap, and try to get a little more homeschooling done before it's time to pick up Snow White from the bus stop at 2:40 pm. Then go pick up Brother from school by 3:00. That would mean that Brother would no longer be getting a nap time so he'd be extra fun all evening.

Finally, I've also been teaching Snow White after school since she doesn't seem to be learning much at school other than getting practice writing her name repeatedly with terrible handwriting that they don't attempt to correct. There's nothing like enforcing bad habits. This past week I've worked with her on colors, shapes, and neat handwriting. She's doing really well and actually begs to do more. She loves to learn. I'm using an old Rod & Staff curriculum with her that I purchased back in 2006 for Gloria but decided it was too simple for her. It's just the right speed for Snow White. One final note, we're also enrolling our home school under our church's umbrella school program. We got the paper work finally this week. Yea!

Livin' La Vida Loca

Everything is going well for us. I'm very sleepy and promise to update the blog tomorrow. We've still got Snow White and Brother and even got some surprising good news this week regarding their case.

Yes, we know the gender of the baby. No, we're not announcing it on the blog until after we've made sure our immediate family members all know. Since we haven't managed to reach all of them yet, you'll have to wait a tiny bit longer. Maybe tomorrow.

Good night!

The Person in Me

This is an ultrasound picture of an 18 week old baby in the womb. Mine is 19 weeks, so it looks approximately like this one. Daniel and I keep marveling over the idea that there is another human being inside of me right now. It's just such an amazing thought.

Today I researched info on Braxton Hicks contractions and pre-term labor because I was feeling nervous about having such strong uncomfortable contractions so early in my pregnancy. It turns out that the more kids you've had, the more likely it is that you'll have Braxton Hicks contractions earlier and stronger. Also, it can be brought on by dehydration, so I'm trying to drink more water. Although I have more energy than I did in my previous trimester, I still feel tired a lot and tend to compensate by drinking too much diet pop and tea. It's strange how one minute it feels like this pregnancy is dragging on interminably and the next it seems to be flying by. I can't wait to find out if it's a boy or a girl next week!

Fun Filled Crazy Days

We've been so busy the past week. I don't know how much of it is due to having 2 extra kids in the house, but it's been fun and exhausting. They've had trips to the park with Daniel, colored with chalk and had popsicles outside, played lots of board games, watched plenty of kids' videos, participated in kids' church activities, and helped me keep the house clean for all the caseworkers, attorneys, and friends we were expecting to see this week.

One of the most challenging parts for me has been figuring out how to homeschool four different grade levels. I'm doing pre-K with the boys, Kindergarten with Snow White, and a mixed 3rd/4th grade with Gloria and Danya. The first day we tried it was a bit crazy. I've discovered that I cannot have them all working on different subjects at the exact same time. However, I can handle the three older girls working on three different things while the boys are napping in the afternoon. In the mornings I divide and conquer. Danya and Gloria take turns leading the younger ones in an activity that I've set up while I work with the two of them individually. It takes longer, but we're getting everything accomplished.

Yesterday I worked on doing an evaluation to see where exactly Snow White is at academically. She can count to 13 and recognize numbers up to 9, knows some of her shapes, and can write a few letters in her name. She has a Kindergarten workbook that her previous foster mom gave her to just color in so that she could feel like she was doing homework like the older kids. I'm actually showing her how to do the activities. Sadly, I read through Brother's IEP and checked both him and Kevin on the different skills like naming three items in a category (for example Animals: cat, dog, pig) and only Kevin was able to do them. We've got a lot of work to do!

Midnight Hospital Visit

Kevin is quite the little trooper. Monday night at bedtime he started crying uncontrollably when I laid him down. Daniel had just left for work and I was trying to do the "beauty night" I'd promised the girls. So I ran back and forth between giving Kevin Tylenol, sippy cups, and hugs and at the same time trying to paint the girls' nails hot pink.

Kevin fell asleep around 8:30 or so but only for an hour. I ended up calling Daniel at work when I realized that Kevin definitely had a horrible ear infection. He just kept clutching his right ear and crying. So he and I sat on the couch watching Blue's Clues until Daniel could get back from work around 10pm. Daniel scooped Kevin up and took him to the hospital since we didn't think any after hours clinics would be open that late. Upon arrival Kevin promptly threw up all over himself. That's why he's wearing a hospital gown in this photo. He wouldn't take it off until nap time later in the day. He's currently on antibiotics and doing well. Hopefully this clears it up.

No Apple Necessary

Snow White lost a tooth a couple of days ago. She just noticed it was loose and yanked it out. This is one tough little girl. She never complains when her hair is being brushed no matter how bad the tangle. She was very happy that the Tooth Fairy would be visiting even in this new home of hers.

She's doing so well with all the changes she's experiencing lately. Last night was her first night at AWANA. We were able to get her into the Sparks blue group so that during flag/announcement/music time she'd be sitting in the row directly behind Gloria and Daniel. Her leader, Ms. Dawn, said that Snow White did really well and even said the verses they were working on. She came out grinning from ear to ear and couldn't wait to show me her Sparky Gate paper.

We found out which school she'll be attending. The bus should stop right across the street at the park. (No more climbing the hill in the snow like we did with Penny!) Today we finish enrolling her and find out whether she'll be in morning or afternoon Kindergarten. I think she'll do fine. She's very social and a good kid. I hope her speech therapy will be more than once a week. We'll see!

Inside the Slide at Mickey D's

Here's a great photo that Shannon took of Danya from inside the tunnel slide Sunday after church at McDonald's. We found out Sunday that our pastor and a few others are boycotting McDonald's (not a church wide thing, just personal individual decisions) because of their enormous financial push for homosexual issues. I can understand their decision, but with five small kids McDonald's is a must. Cheap food and a playland on every corner can't be beat.

Not Quite Ready

Sunday went fairly well for Snow White and Brother's first day in Sunday school classes. We managed to get everyone up, groomed, and out the door in time to arrive just a little late for band practice before service started. Daniel had to manually wrestle Brother into his Sunday clothes, but other than that it worked out alright.

We attempted to let Brother join the four year olds group that goes to TruthQuest with the older kids and then on to a Sunday school lesson. His group, however, was short handed because three backup people called in sick. So there was only one leader for 16 (PreK/K) kids. Daniel volunteered to stay and help. Brother just can't sit still and listen for that long. When I finished playing in the band I went up to the classroom to check on them and ended up having to take Brother down to join the 3 year olds' class. He did really well there, so I think we'll just keep him in with the younger kids. They get to attend TruthQuest for the beginning and end so that they get to enjoy singing and puppets, but then they move on to play time and snacks back in the Threes' classroom.

Skills and Schools

Snow White and Brother have a strange mix of skills and gaps in their abilities that keep surprising us. This weekend Daniel taught Snow White how to make peanut butter cookies without crushing them. He says he has to remind himself to slow down with her and not expect that she knows the same things as our girls knew at almost six years old. For instance, we are trying to teach her to tie her shoes right now.

Today I took them to start the enrollment process for school. Unfortunately, it looks like it's going to be more complicated than I thought. We have to wait for a phone call to find out which school Snow White will be going to, and then call the bus barn to find out which bus she'll ride. Not a big deal, but she probably won't be starting tomorrow.

For Brother, however, there is a problem. The caseworker insisted that he needs to be in a Pre-K program, but in our area there are only so many free public Pre-K spots open at the schools. After that they are filled by those who can pay tuition. Currently, all the spots (even tuition ones) are filled and the best they can do is put his name on a lottery list. If spots open up and if his name is picked in the lottery, then I can call the director and ask if there is some way I can get him in despite not being able to pay tuition. I'm not sure what to do about this. I thought that since he has "special needs" due to severe speech delays they were required to help him. I'm going to ask the caseworker if there isn't some way that a speech therapist can be paid to just come to our home via Medicaid or the (limited) foster child discretionary fund that the county has.